Dear ODS: My Girlfriend is Too Fat Now

Dear ODS,

My girlfriend is getting fat. If she gets too fat I think I should be able to leave her and it isn’t my fault, right?

Dear ODS: Can I Love and Club?

Dear ODS,

Hello, I am a 24 year old real estate agent getting close to falling in love with a man I recently met. He is wonderful but he is 29 and 4 years in recovery for drugs and alcohol.

Dear ODS: I’m Taken for Granted

Dear ODS,

This is certainly my fault in the end first of all. I am forever the listener of people’s problems and accessory and third/fifth wheel.

Dear ODS: An Unholy Mess

Dear ODS,

I feel like a failure and that I’m generally a worthless idiot because I love the wrong people or love them the wrong way. I get off the phone with my ex-girlfriend’s new boyfriend after telling him that I’ve been with her the past few nights and that we love each other again.

Dear ODS: Condoms and Elderly STDs

Dear ODS,

I am a mother of 3 with the oldest coming in at 16 years old now. I was doing his laundry when I discovered a condom in his pocket. I’m definitely a cool parent but I’m a Mom and this is a lot for me.

Dear ODS: My Dad’s Wedding

Dear ODS,

I’m Cambodian so this is bad but kind of normal, my Dad cheated on my Mom a lot when they were married and I was growing up. They got divorced about one year and a half ago and my Dad is getting married again very soon. I have not met the woman or seen my Dad since the divorce and I’m freaked out about going to his wedding. Should I go or not?

Dear ODS: My Sister’s Husband

Dear ODS,

Hello, I am one half of the head of a happy family here in the south of America. We often go out as a family, myself, my husband and our children with my sister and her husband.

Dear ODS: Should I Tell Him I Cheated?

Dear ODS,

I’m getting married soon…like really soon. And I’m feeling awful and wonderful because I love the man I’m going to marry but in a moment of weakness almost 2 years ago (we’ve been together for 4 years!!!) I cheated on him.

Dear ODS: Is it Too Soon to Travel?

Dear ODS,

My name is XXXXX and I have a question for your column. I have recently met a man whom I greatly admire at a New York Convention for Yoga and Slow Food. We vibe on so much together and although he travels a great deal in his work, he does not live near to me in YYYYYY.

Dear ODS: Why Can’t I fall in Love

Dear ODS,

Why can’t I fall in love?

Love,

Aimee Sees a Tree Outside