Spread OutIf you were to join the Spark Network-driven Greek Singles Connection and search its members, you may be struck by something – the large number of Chinese, Japanese and other Eastern Asian singles listed. That’s right, on Greek Singles Connection there are a whole lot of non Greek Singles looking to connect. Likewise you’ll find hundreds of Caucasians on BlackSingles.com, African-Americans on Asian Singles Connection and you may even find a Christian or too on JDate.com. Imagine that – they are not going to lock you up in jail for joining ChristianMingle.com in the state of being an Agnostic! Now I’m not saying to go join every site so long as you’re fine with whatever may come your way, of course not. Not only would that cost a whole lot of money, it would yield you with way more dates than you’d know what to do with. Remember that the high number of dates you’re likely to get by putting your profile up online can become an obstacle if you’re not ready to deal with it. But if you’ve been listed on the same site for more than two months now and aren’t totally pleased with the type of people you’ve been meeting, then I am saying that you may want to look into listing yourself on another site. Going with something smaller than an eHarmony.com or Match.com, something which bills itself as the online dating destination for a specific population can be just what your online dating life needs. These so-called Z-Specific sites are like all introductions in dating, whether online or live – starting points! So if you are interested in finding a Jewish woman, hey, check out JewishMingle.com. It doesn’t mean you are committed a life with the Torah, nor is it an announcement of your own religion or religious values – it’s just a place to meet people. Look over at our directory then pick a site that looks interesting. For whatever reason: you like the name, your best friend in high school was a Mormon – the reason can be random. Then go and list yourself for one month at that site. It won’t cost more than $20 and I guarantee you that you’ll find a different type of suitor than you’ve become accustomed to in your previous dating experience. Finding people online is the same as finding people at a bar or in class or at a job – you never know where you are going to find the right person. The key is in looking everywhere. |
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